i have decided to have fun while trying again. i don't want it all to become "work". we don't have a schedule to "do it". like nike, we "just do it" - whenever we are feeling horny! this is so much more exciting & fun. no following rules & tips. they were all just getting a bit tedious to maintain. doing it in a certain way, staying in a certain position after we're done, doing it only during specific times...........the list was almost endless. i say: to hell with it!