on another note about our previous scare: b was so worried about getting me to the hospital and to rush me to be admitted that he left me standing on the porch of the hospital! he was going to rush into the lift without me just to get to the labour ward as fast as he could until i called out to him. thankfully the security guard at the hospital noticed me and got me a wheelchair and proceeded to wheel me to b and to the labour ward. guess i perform better in an emergency huh?