i was asked recently if i ever question myself as to whether i did the right thing; ie the termination. my answer was "without a shadow of doubt". how can others ask this of me? do they really think that i would not have done everything i could to save my baby? do they really think that i did it for fun? don't they know the pain & sorrow i went through? it was not even an option to carry my baby to term. that was NEVER gonna happen. all the docs i went to consult said the same thing (& i did go to a number of docs in the hopes that ONE would have told me a different story). i can't believe some of the people out there. i guess they'll never understand the pain of it all if they have never been pregnant & they have never bonded they way mothers bond with their babies in the womb. they just want to give their unsolicited 2 cents worth - just like back seat drivers!